After I went off to college, I really started to realize how great she was and how lucky I was to have her for a sister. I started to enjoy her company very much and respect her opinions and advice. I also started to feel really guilty for the way I'd treated her all those years! By the time I got engaged, I really wanted to solidify our friendship, so I did what any good sister would do. I invited her on a trip to New York City - just the two of us. And it was a blast - one of my favorite trips ever!! She lives in Miami now, and when I find out she's coming home for a visit, I look forward to it for months!! She is one of my favorite people in the world :)
For a few years, I liked to think that the trip to New York sort of made up for the years of torment I caused her. But then a few years after that, in my adjusting-to-caring-for-two-small-kids-nonstop-fog, I forgot to tell her she was the godmother for Abby Kate's baptism. So I'm pretty sure I owe her another trip :)
After this *small* oversight (she wasn't able to be at the baptism as a result) I clarified that she would be the godmother for any and all future children I am blessed with. When Elizabeth was born, I told her she was the godmother an additional 5 times, and planned the special day around her schedule. It took a small army to find a weekend that both she and Cline could be off of work, but we made it happen this past Sunday!! Alicia flew in on Friday and got to spend 2 days with our family. It was fabulous, and it was also Elizabeth's first time meeting her Aunt Alicia!!
Elizabeth all ready for church (in the baptismal dress I wore as a baby). I am still kicking myself for forgetting to put her bonnet on. All 3 of my girls have white bonnets that convert to handkerchiefs for the "something old" on their wedding day. Christa and Abby Kate wore theirs home for the hospital. I didn't have Elizabeth's when we came home from the hospital, so I told myself she would wear it for her baptism. Then I forgot. So I have to come up with another special occasion for her to wear it. But at least I remembered to tell Alicia she was the godmother :)
Christa is such a great big sister. She LOVES holding Elizabeth and taking care of her little sisters. Most of the time, she is kind, helpful, and loving to them!! I do everything I can to encourage that to continue.
Aunt Alicia holding Elizabeth after the baptism.
My wonderful family.Gotta run - screaming babies need my attention. Have a great day!

4 comments:
I think this blog might have made up for everything. - Mom
Awww I love this blog!! Thanks so much for the sweet stories and pictures. You were and ARE a WONDERFUL big sister and I love you very much. It is an honor to be the godmother to your 3 beautiful girls (and all future children, of course). But for the record, I WAS at Abby Kate's baptism. Wouldn't have missed it for the world. ;)
Thanks again for working so hard to include me in this special day.
Love,
Alicia
You are blessed to have such a wonderful baby sister. I pray my girls realize the wonderful bond of sisterhood and love each other as much as you and Alicia do : ) Elizabeth is beautiful and I miss you all!! We have to find time to get together soon!!! Love you!
You weren't a nerd! (SBTB, Ace Ventura and Ms. Packman forever!) But I am glad that you've come to terms with how cool your little sister actually is. I came to the same realization about Patrick several years back. Meghan and Michael... the jury is still out. ;-) Congratulations on the baptism. Your girls are so beautiful and you ain't lookin' too shabby yourself. Take care. Hopefully I can swing a 3 day weekend in the next several months and finally meet your amazing family!
The Lurker
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